Thursday, July 12, 2012

Encouraging Words

“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” Ephesians 4:29 (KJV)

This passage is my personal, ministry model. It deals with being careful of how one communicates. Our speech can encourage and edify or it can destroy and kill. We must reject the world's model so that we minister grace to others.

Corrupt communication (logos sapros) has the connotation of rotten speech (i.e. stinking thinking). It includes profanity, negative comments, and doubt. Logos sapros also has the connotation of worn out words or improperly used words. It includes overworked clichés and improper references, poor quality or worthless speech and words or concepts that the hearers can not understand.

Good communication (logos agathos), however, gives careful consideration to several things. First, who is listening? Is this a private or public talk? Second, what is the need being addressed? What is the maturity level of the individual or group? Is the individual or group able to receive frank, honest challenges or is a more tactful approach necessary? Third, what can be said that will strengthen and encourage the individual or group? And finally, will this communication provide grace to the listener(s)?

As a pastor and communicator, I am responsible to consider this each time I am preparing to enter the pulpit. But Paul’s words are to the Church as a whole. Every Christian is exhorted to speak good words that edify according to the need of others and to give grace to the hearer.

We can begin to speak things that are beneficial. Words of joy and encouragement. Words that promote personal and spiritual growth. Words that are an advantage to those who listen. Words that are in the interest of the other person.

It is in my best interest to make certain that what I say to others is in their best interests. Where grace is planted, grace is reaped. Strengthening the faith of others . . . encouraging the faith of others . . . is like rain in the midst of drought. It will change the landscape.

Dear Father, thank you for your words of mercy and grace. Enable us to communicate with others so that grace is given to them. This I pray in the name of Jesus. AMEN

Be strong and courageous today speaking words of encouragement,

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