Monday, July 16, 2012

An Answer For Everyone

"Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone." (Colossians 4:6 NIV)

In today's passage, Paul offers the Colossian saints some insight into good conversation habits. Salt is a change agent so with proper use and amounts, it adds flavor to bland food. It also has preserving qualities. From a biblical and theological perspective grace is also a catalyst and a preservative.

Someone has said, "God gave us two ears and one mouth to listen twice as much as we speak. " The Apostle Paul wrote, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen" (Eph. 4:29 NIV).

Foolish, disgraceful conversation is full of personal opinion without concern or regard for what others have to say. Such conversation doesn't try to understand the viewpoint of others or their concerns. Have you ever heard the expression: "Open mouth, insert foot"? That is usually the result of impulsive answers before hearing the matter (Pro. 18:13).

Consider how our lives and relationships might improve, if we only conversed with words salted by grace. Our words can be inflammatory and hurtful or full of grace and catalytic seasoning. Remember, words can never be un-said or taken back.

With regret, I wish that I would have been a guardian of my speech earlier on in my life and career. With God's salty grace we can identify and change our destructive speech habits into encouraging, life-giving edification "that may benefit those who listen." Listening to the Spirit will enable us to "know how to answer everyone."

Dear Father, thank you for the salt of your grace. Empower us to truly season our conversations with your grace. This I pray in the name of Jesus. AMEN

Be strong and courageous today as you answer everyone,

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